Because today is our anniversary, this week's friday five is a wedding tag I saw on someone else's blog. I thought it would be totally appropriate to talk about us today (even though we weren't tagged to do it!!)
1. When were you married? Friday, August 22, 2003 (5 Years Ago!)
2. Where did you get married? San Diego Temple
3. Who proposed and how? Jeff proposed to me on my birthday! He was in Northern California working and I was in Southern California working and living with my family. We hadn't seen eachother since April at school. He surprised me and flew down- my family told me to meet them at the park (for a bday dinner, I thought.) I couldn't find anybody at the park so I almost ruined the surprise when I went home. My mom told me to go back and sure enough, I heard his loud whistle! Instantly I knew it was him and he was here... I got out of my car (still on, keys in, door open) and ran after him- I was confused as to why he kept running AWAY from me. Finally under a light he stopped and proposed! Everything was perfect!
4. What was the favorite part of your wedding day? Being in the temple! I still remember the feeling while we were waiting in the celestial room to go to our sealing room. I hope I always remember what it felt like. It was white and clean and calm and perfect. That's how I felt. My other favorite thing was having all my friends and family together. We were so blessed to have so much of our loved ones there.
5. What would you change if you could? To not be stressed out during our engagement. We did all our planning over the phone and I remember so many times being so worried that Jeff wouldn't like what I picked out or needed to see the details. Ok, now I have learned men don't care about the details and to have more confidence in my own taste. He usually likes what I pick out- or pretends he doesn't just to be funny. Ha ha!
6. What were your colors? Plum, lavendar and sage green

7. Do you remember anything special from your ceremony? Any good advice? A comical moment?
Good advice: I remember Jeff's grandpa (Clark) had some good advice for us: Always focus on the other person. If he tries his hardest to make sure I'm happy, and I try my hardest to make him happy, we will both be happy!
and something to Jeff about when you take off your pants tonight, make sure she knows you'll be the one wearing them...or something like that...
Comical Moment: It was quite a windy day in San Diego that day, and as we were taking pictures, the photographers told Jeff to lift me up and hold me in his arms. Well, just as he lifted me up, a gust of wind came and my skirt flew over our heads! Luckily, I had a very puffy skirt, slip and inner linning so I didn't flash anyone, but we were stuck under the puff ball for a few seconds and couldn't stop laughing for awhile after that!
8. Were you clean or messy with your wedding cake? Oooh, this is a good question. I kept telling Jeff to "be nice, I have a pretty dress on" So he made sure to smash it in my face only and avoid the dress. Well, when it was my turn, I kept the cake on the spatula and shoved it in his face, resulting in cake and frosting all over me, my hair, my dress (what was I thinking picking a fight with a football player?) and I also cut his lip a little with the serated knife. Oops. We had fun though!

9. Where did you go on your honeymoon? A few of my parents' close family friends all pitched in for a cruise for us! My parents made arrangements for us to stay in the Queen Mary boat/hotel (interesting place) the night before we left for our Long Beach- Ensanada Mexico Cruise! It was awesome. We enjoyed the nice meals, romantic atmosphere, games and entertainment, jacuzzi on top of the ship, snorkeling in Catalina and shopping and walking around in Mexico. I'm embarrased to say we never took any pictures!! Too busy having a blast, I guess.
10. What's your favorite thing about being married? Knowing that I have an eternal companion and friend forever. I never have to wonder if he will be there for me, I can always count on him. He has been a part of the happiest years of my life and I couldn't imagine my life without him. My mom always tells us that we are "a good team" and we are! I think we balance each other out in ways we've always needed someone to. I'm so lucky to have him and I love that we have a special day to celebrate it!